When Alpha was dating, it was a long time before text messaging. In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro presents his buddy, Michael Valmont, who is an expert about text message flirting, dating, and attraction. If you are single and need a helping hand, he's someone to check out.
How to Flirt Over Text
- Don't be predictable & boring - instead add value; illustrate your attractive qualities and idiosyncrasies. Give positive emotion.
- Send pictures of yourself doing something fun & interesting and funny voice notes - this gives an emotional anchor and stimulates positive emotions. She will feel like she's chatting with her face-to-face.
- Tease her - don't just agree with everything she says. Teasing says you'll lose her by exposing your personality.
- Be cheeky and suggestive - if you want to get the message across to her that you want to be more than a friend, you have to be suggestive.
- Ask her out - if you are flirting over text, she will get bored at some point. Pull the trigger and take her out on a date. Texting is just a tool to engage her. The real flirting should take place in person.