In this video men's style, grooming, fitness and lifestyle expert, Aaron Marino of IAmAlphaM, AaronMarino, and Pete & Pedro sends a super big congratulations to you for being so awesome! Being so awesome gets you extra attention from the ladies which increases your chances of ending up in a relationship. Someone moving in on your action is something that can happen. How you handle it, however, is critical to your relationship's success and your sanity!
Men Are Dogs
Men are dogs with instincts that are hard-wired into their brains and, thus, they are always looking for sex! There are a handful of dudes that don't care that a girl is taken and will hit on her anyway. These are the guys we hate-- the guy that hits on anything with boobs. Knowing this reality doesn't make it any easier.
When you start dating, you feel secure; however, when you get deeper into the relationship, dudes hitting on your girl gets you freaky crazy. Even when you're married, you still get that twinge of jealously.
She Tells You That She Got Hit On
So, what happens if your girl comes home and tells you that a guy was hitting on her? Some men get mad at their girl. But how should a man handle it? Let her know that it bothers you without going overboard. Don't question or prod and don't threaten to kick the guy's ass. Acknowledge without getting super freaky weird about it.
She Gets Hit On in Front of You
If you are with your girl when it happens, your instinct is to bow up and punch the guy in the face. Instead, acknowledge the guy's actions with a smile. This smile sends the signal of being super confident. Be proud! There's nothing hot about being insecure. It's horrible, and the relationship will be done a disservice by acting like that.